Tools by level
Local Sex Meets Features: Tools for Meeting Local Singles
Search by town, message members, get noticed and keep your details private.
Everyone begins on Classic, with a profile, browsing, daily suggestions and a set number of messages each day. VIP lifts that ceiling and brings in search filters, chat rooms and group chats. VIP Plus puts you ahead of the crowd.
What do you get at each level?
| Tool | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Daily suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Leads other people’s suggestions | No | No | Yes |
| Messages each day | Limited | No limit | No limit |
| Members-only chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private chats for up to 50 | No | Yes | Yes |
| Who has liked you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind for passed profiles | No | Yes | Yes |
| Messages and likes shown first | No | No | Yes |
| Boosts and Super Match | No | No | Add-on |
| ID check at no charge | Yes | Yes | Yes |
What the two upper levels cost is on the pricing page.
What you can do
Find them, talk to them, get noticed, stay private
Search by town
You get suggestions each day, weighing your age range, your preferences, how near other profiles are, how active they have been and what they are open to. VIP and VIP Plus add filters for city, distance and experience level. New to this? Start on the sex near me page.
Talk to them
Classic has a daily quota of messages, but you can always read and answer what a VIP or VIP Plus member sends you. Step up to VIP and the quota disappears, the members-only chat rooms open to you and you can start a private group chat with up to 50 people. Want a chat that gets to the point? The sex chat page shows how.
Get noticed
Post status updates and photos, and pick up activity badges as you use the site. VIP shows everyone who has liked you, brings back profiles you passed on and lifts your comments higher up. VIP Plus adds exclusive matches and keeps you at the top of other people’s daily suggestions. See the profile tips.
Stay private
Your username goes on the profile instead of your name, and the only place marker other members get is your nearest town or city. Block anyone instantly, report what is wrong, and a human on support is there at any hour. Every protection is listed on the safety page.
Tags
Let your tags say it first
Whatever you tick appears on your profile, so other members can see what you are after before anyone sends a message. Some of the tags on offer:
- Available This Weekend
- Ready Now
- Local Only
- Discreet Meets
- Private Meets
- Roleplay
- Lingerie
- Massage
- Outdoor Fun
- Naughty Games
- Video Chat
- Short-term Fun
- Open to Whatever
- Couples
- Age Gap
- Mature
- MILF
- BBW / BHM
- Curves
- Petite
Checks
Confirm who you are, with a document or without one
- ID check
- Hand over a government ID and, once it has been checked, a blue tick badge appears on your profile. The check is optional and comes at no charge. The badge shows you passed it and tells people nothing else about you.
- Live video check
- Sit a live video check with a moderator and they confirm you are who you say, without seeing a single document. It adds no badge to your profile.
Neither check tells you how someone will behave on a date, so read meeting for sex safely before you arrange one.
On your phone
Carry it in your pocket
Local Sex Meets works as a web app on your phone. Open it in the browser, use the browser’s menu to put it on your home screen, and it sits among your other apps.
Got a question about the tools?
What can I do on Classic?
Everyone starts on Classic. It covers your profile, browsing, daily suggestions, status updates, photos, comments on articles and polls, and a limited number of messages a day. The ID check is open to you, and so is a review of your profile by someone on the team, with no documents involved.
How is the ID check different from the video check?
You can take the ID check at no charge if you choose to, and it earns a blue tick badge. The live video check is run by a moderator, needs no documents and gives no badge. Neither says anything about how a person behaves on a date.
What are Boosts and Super Match?
Only VIP Plus members can buy them, as add-ons. Buy a Boost and your profile is promoted to nearby members who are active. Send a Super Match and your message arrives highlighted, so the person you wrote to sees it first.
Make a profile and start looking
Choose your tags, add a photo and see who turns up in your first suggestions.
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